6-WEEK UNMASKING CHALLENGE
6-WEEK UNMASKING CHALLENGE
❌ Do you look like you have it all together on the outside, while on the inside you feel exhausted and often struggle to make it through the day?
❌ Do you spend excessive time rehearsing conversations, emails, or presentations to avoid making mistakes or being perceived as incompetent?
❌ Do you say yes to social gatherings, work projects, or family obligations even when you’re feeling overwhelmed, to avoid being seen as unreliable or antisocial?
If you answered YES, you are probably a 🎭 Masking Queen! 👑
I bet you’ve tried to just push through, telling yourself it’s only a few more weeks to [deadline / Christmas / summer] hoping for a break…... but somehow your mind never stops. Sound familiar?
🚩 Have you already burned out or are you still ignoring all the red flags?
👉🏻 Why is it so nerve-racking to always feel you’re not good enough?
👉🏻 Is the constant battle to ‘just fit in and be normal’ really worth it?
👉🏻 Is it actually possible to be genuinely proud of all that you are and knowing your worth without feeling like a fraud who’ll soon be found out?
⛔ STOP. PAUSE. BREATHE…
If any (or all) of the above questions run through your head… day after day… I might be able to help.
🙋🏻♀️ My name is Pauline. And, while I don't claim to know it all, I do know what this constant struggle feels like. Not that long ago, I was in your shoes. It's been a rough and bumpy ride throughout my life, with many highs, followed by ever so many lows.
There was the constant inner conflict between:
🤯 Wanting more excitement and adventure, while craving some peace and quiet.
😵 Torn between perfectionism and boredom; always feeling it isn’t enough and wanting more, but also feeling I’m not good enough; I need to do more, be more.
🫣 A brain that never stops generating ideas, but then feeling completely overwhelmed and blocked with fear of failure, judgement and rejection when it comes to execution.
❌ And then making sure no one would notice and pretend everything is fine. Again.
Anyway, if that's kind of how you’re feeling right now...
Join me on a 6-week Unmasking Challenge!
✨ Let me give you a simple guide, so that you can stop beating yourself up and blaming yourself, and instead learn to understand and work with your sparkly brain so that you can be proud of all that you are.
✨ Let me show you some creative hacks and clever workarounds so you will have energy left at the end of the day and feel more in control, with a clear focus on what really matters to you.
✨ Let me work with you to design your unique recipe for success that you can always fall back onto, whatever life throws at you, under any circumstances.
Here is what I’m proposing 👇🏻
💫 I’ve had a LOT of highly intelligent, high performing ADHD, autistic and other ND women reach out to me asking for my help. They all secretly know they are brilliant, yet they feel deeply ashamed of who they are and they play small hoping no one will notice.
💫 So, I had this crazy idea to build a step-by-step plan to guide you from being overwhelmed and not knowing where to begin to feeling powerful and in charge of your life - and your brain - in just 6 weeks.
💫 No fluff. No messing around, just a simple plan to take you from hiding behind a mask to feeling proud of who you are and showing up authentically and unapologetically using all of your strengths.
Wouldn’t you love to
❌ STOP feeling you need to work 3x as hard to keep up your perfect image and
🚀 START taking the right steps towards embracing all of who you are, authentically and unapologetically?
Then this might be for you:
✨ I am looking for 10 highly intelligent, high performing neurodivergent women over 40 who are sick of hiding behind a mask just trying to fit in in a neurotypical world and who are ready to work with their exceptional brain so that they can feel good and be proud of all that they are.
On May 14th, these 10 founding members will start working closely with me to understand, accept, embrace and fall in love with their sparkly brain. And I will not let you fail 💖
As one of the first 10 Founding Members, you will get:
✅ A 6-week step-by-step Unmasking Guide: Discover Your Uniqueness and Own Your Sparkle
👉 The Challenge follows the “Five to Flow Method”, which is a unique system to gain control over your life and thrive when living with a neurosparkly brain. This simple yet very effective method helps create clarity and focus while making sure you remain highly motivated and engaged to stay on track.
✅ Weekly Group Coaching Sessions to Personalize Your Plan
✅ Ten Creative Hacks to Simplify Your Life: Clever Workarounds for More Energy and Joy
✅ Access to a Private Community of Like-Minded Women for Accountability and Support
✅ Your Own App with Daily Trackers, a Growing Free Library and On Demand Course Materials
✅ Ongoing Support and Accountability: after the 6-week challenge there will be a special discounted monthly plan which includes private monthly live calls with Pauline, access to new content and exclusive community membership.
👉🏻 Right now, I’m looking for 10 Founding Members, who I can work closely with over a period of 6 weeks to get them incredible results.
💫 Are you interested to learn to confidently, authentically and unapologetically step into your light feeling proud of all that you are? Just follow this link to secure your spot! I’m so excited to welcome you on this journey! 💃🏻
You may be thinking… What’s the catch?
Well, there is no catch. I’m simply looking to test out my new program and get some killer testimonials before releasing it to the wider public at the price it deserves.
There are only 10 spots available as founding members for this 6-Week Step-by-Step Unmasking Challenge so if this sounds like you, don’t wait! 🎉
Click the link if you are interested in securing your spot 👇🏻
If you are still sitting on the fence, here’s what you need to know...
👉 When does it start?
✅ On May 14th, 10 Founding Members of the Unmasking Challenge will kick off their journey working closely with me to discover how to work with their neurosparkly brain so that they can step into their light authentically and unapologetically without years and years of therapy.
👉 Who is it for?
✅ This mini coaching programme is specifically designed for High Performing Neurodivergent Women over 40 to put an end to the constant struggle of trying to fit in in a neurotypical world when you know you were made for much bigger things. It’s designed for people who’ve been pushing through, telling themselves to hang in there and just try harder and who still haven’t been able to find a way to feel confident and be proud of all that they are.
👉 What’s included?
✅ You’ll get A 6-week step-by-step Unmasking Guide to Discover Your Uniqueness and to Own Your Sparkle. The challenge follows the Five to Flow Method, which is a unique system to gain control over your life and thrive when living with a neurosparkly brain. This simple yet very effective method helps create clarity and focus while making sure you remain highly motivated and engaged to stay on track.
👉 I don’t have a formal diagnosis; can I still join in?
✅ Absolutely, with very long waiting lists and costly assessments, many women go through life without ever getting a formal diagnosis. If you recognise yourself in the struggles I described, you are more than welcome to join us.
👉 I’m not sure about the online aspect of it; will this work for me?
✅ Of course we are all different, but our experience is that these calls are highly engaging and create a wonderful sense of connection and community. We will be working closely together to tailor the steps to your personal journey. Why not give it a try and challenge yourself?
👉 How much time will this require, will this not make me feel even more busy?
✅ This 6-week program allows for a wonderful weekly moment to pause and recalibrate. It will actually end up giving you more time because you will learn to consciously choose how you want to spend your energy.
Coaching with Pauline
There are many different kinds of coaches. It’s important to find the right coach for you. Someone you feel connected to. Here’s a little bit about me and the kind of coach I am. I’m a life long expat; I’m originally Dutch but I grew up and lived in seven different countries, working on four continents. I have an engineering background and was also a stay-at-home mom for several years. I’m the mother of 3 teenagers and my chaotic family consists of an energetic mix of ADHD, ASD and giftedness. Throw in some HSP and RSD for extra spice and there’s never a dull moment for us 🎉
I followed my passion and became a Life and Leadership Coach in 2016 while living in Doha, Qatar. I’m a multiple certified coach and run my own coaching business from our home in Hilversum. I have the pleasure of working with international women all over the globe every day. I trained in the fields of Wellbeing, Transitions and Neurodivergence Coaching and I’m an ADHD Specialist Coach. My clients value my patience, empathy, honesty, compassion and sense of humor. I have a strength-based approach and I truly believe in my clients’ abilities to succeed. Oh, and I’ve decided to have more FUN in life. Does this sound exciting to you? Let’s talk!
So… if you’re a High Performing Neurodivergent Woman over 40 struggling with the constant inner conflict of trying to fit in while wearing yourself out, this is your opportunity to learn how to work with your neurosparkly brain so that you can feel good and be proud of all that you are without having to go through years and years of therapy. Don’t miss out!
I just wanted to share a quick success story with you:
⭐ I shared this system with 47-year-old successful professional in learning and development who constantly doubted herself and the results they achieved were incredible. Despite her numerous degrees and certifications, she always felt like an imposter. She was very sensitive to criticism as she thought this confirmed her feeling of never being good enough. When she understood how her brain is just wired differently and the opportunities and strengths that come with that, she got a huge confidence boost and has since made some very courageous changes to her life. She now runs her own successful business and only works with clients she feels excited about and that she really connects with. ⭐
If you want to achieve these sorts of results in the next 6 weeks and beyond, click the link below:
What other people say
Pauline has been instrumental in helping me reframe my thoughts around returning to work after a break for children and has helped me to think about what I really want my family - work life to look like. I was struggling with blending my career aspirations with my role as a mum and Pauline gave me such a new perspective which was both refreshing and encouraging and allowed me to reframe my thoughts to think more deeply about my values and how work could fit with that. It also made me consider and reflect on my own needs which are so often forgotten when you become a mum. I found the sessions so useful. Highly recommended. ~ Hannah
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Pauline, you are a fantastic coach; an amazing listener and an incredibly empathetic person with a great sense of humor. I feel really lucky and deeply grateful for having you as my guide through all of this! Even though it is a very complex process and I often felt quite delicate going through it, I never felt rushed or ambushed, my boundaries were always respected, even when being challenged. I have learned and am continuing to learn so much about myself and how to handle struggles and my complicated personality/life due to our sessions. From the bottom of my heart: thank you! ~ Zsófia
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Before I met Pauline, I was struggling with some major changes in my career. I was having a hard time balancing life and work, constantly struggling with feelings of guilt for working long hours instead of spending time with my children or partner, let alone finding time for myself.
Pauline helped me with some effective tools that I could apply in my everyday life. Simply by becoming aware of how I phrased certain things, I was able to step out of a victim role realising I was in charge no matter what and I’m the one making the decisions. I still sometimes put work first - but now it is a conscious decision.
I would recommend coaching with Pauline to anyone looking to feel more balanced. It really helped to have an objective person let me see both sides of the coin and then deliberate what would be my best way forward. I found Pauline very easy to talk to, and the fact that she gives practical tools and tips, made the sessions accessible and a very pleasant experience. ~ Richelle